First of all, it's your car and if you like it don't pay any attention to what anyone says. Second, check out the 7th gen section and the member rides section. Tirerack.com will usually allow you to view the rims on the car and it usually has a stock suspension. Me personally, I like the way aftermarket rims look with a drop. There are companies that will make a subtle drop of 1.2" to 1.5" and not a crazy 3" drop or anything. I don't recall what size the stock 2011 wheels are, but know that if it's not a 20" rim that you gas mileage will go down and your braking will be slightly worse.

Andrew