I "fixed" my problem and traded in on a 2005 G35 sedan with a 6spd.
Black on Black. I can't believe how much I have missed a manual transmission.
The dealer I went to must have been severly eager to sell a car. They did not even drive my car as part of the evaluation for trade, and in my opinion I got a great deal!
I really appreciate all the help you guys have given. My loss but some gain for you guys is that I had just ordered a BUNCH of stuff for my car that was never used that I will have to sell. Some of which is still in transit... bummer how that works. I will start a post in the classifieds in a little bit, keep your eyes posted.